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It doesn't take a scientist today to figure out that most people have lost connection with their own selves. That is simply because we have been programmed to believe it is better to give, give, and give some more even if we're already running on empty!
This inner disconnect grows bigger through the years because we carry with us the weight of self-blame and self-loathe from our mistakes, mishaps and missed opportunities. On top of it all, we aren't used to giving ourselves time off for recharging and refueling.
How did we get here? We got into this space overtime as we've been conditioned to view self- care, self-healing and self-love as utterly selfish. The result? Many of us now feel ashamed, guilty and messed up as f#ck when we begin to journey into the realm of conscious and genuine self care.
Is this familiar, beloved?
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You believe it's just plain selfish to demand time and space for yourself.
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You believe you just have to carry on with who the world demands you to be,
despite all the wounds and bruises you're carrying within you through the years.
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You believe you do not have the right to find the path of healing because it will demand of your time, energy and space... things you're told are supposed to be contributed to others and not taken for yourself!
The culture has collectively made it a point to give you no room for self-awareness enough to realize
YOU ACTUALLY NEED TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST before you can even ever do any kind of
genuine, brilliant, graceful, loving contribution to your outer world.
You need a whole and overflowing cup before you can safely and genuinely give, give and give.
Listen to me, beloved...
You can never give what you do not have!
Making
yourself a priority
is not selfish.
It's necessary.
Self-care is intricately woven into your divine design. You're supposed to give ONLY from your overflow!
And yet, this is not usually the case for most of us.
By the time we realize that we need to take care of ourselves, it has probably already been too late.
By then, you already had been stretched too thin and at your wit's end because you are running on empty.
Your tank no longer has anything in it to nourish you for your journey and all that could well up from that reality is a form of bitterness, anger, frustration or anguish.
YOU EXPERIENCE THE ANGST OF NO LONGER LIVING IN YOUR TRUE DIVINE IDENTITY.
You easily lose your voice and you pretty much shove your visions into the closet of your mind.
You eventually begin to continually feel the doubts and emptiness inside grow into a darkness.
A darkness that eventually envelopes the very brilliance of your unique being.
You feel this darkness suck the very vigor of life from you.
AND THEN YOU BECOME THE VERY NIGHTMARE YOU VOWED YOURSELF NOT TO BE!
You become easily irritated... easily distracted... easily manipulated... easily drained.
You become sensitive to your world's lack of empathy for your deeper turmoil.
You become focused on your overwhelm... on your regrets... on your frustrations...
And those doubts and fears grow stronger day by day.
Life in this space becomes a daily grind that you wish you can escape but can't.
Relationships become either a burden, a source of major conflict or a bitter pill to swallow daily.
THE OVERWHELM BECOMES REAL AND YOU WISH YOU CAN JUST ESCAPE FROM IT.
What if you're actually meant for more, brilliant one?
YOU WEREN'T CREATED
TO BE IN ALL THAT TURMOIL!
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YOU WEREN'T CREATED
TO BE IN ALL THAT TURMOIL!
What if you can reclaim the life you were destined to live?
What if you can finally be on a path of healing and wholeness?
And what if you can finally give yourself the gift of ?
self-love
You were meant to
HEAL...
BE WHOLE...
LIVE...
THRIVE...
GIVE from your overflow...
LAUGH at the days to come...
and to genuinely LOVE.
Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good health,
as it goes well with your soul. (3 John 1:2)
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The Divine Self-Love Journey
1.
Self-Awareness
The divine journey to self-love begins with self-awareness. One must come face to face with who you really are at the moment (skeletons in the closet, included) and who you really want to be in order to work through all the barriers that keep you from truly becoming. This phase of your journey opens you to the possibilities of every aspect of your design. This is self discovery.
MONTH
2.
Self-Reconciliation
The second, and perhaps the most strategic phase of self-love, is to go through your personal self-reconciliation process. Without this, any attempt to incorporate self-love in your life becomes impossible. Deep divine work of releasing, accepting, healing traumas and forgiving yourself happens in this phase. You will reconcile with every level, every aspect, every dimension of your design. This is your return to wholeness.
MONTH
You are meant to grow and expand beyond who and what you've known yourself to be. Becoming WHOLE again is not the ultimate end of the journey. Your ultimate end is to live and to thrive in the brilliance of your divine design! You must become equipped to successfully walk in your divine brilliance, identity, purpose, and legacy! This phase of your journey seals the deal for your FULL self-loving and self-nourishing act that will birth into fruition the long-held visions and dreams of your life.
This is becoming.
3.
Self-Expansion
MONTH
Find the Courage
YOU.
to heal, to rediscover, to reconcile, to expand, to genuinely LOVE
Unleash your potent brilliance & change your world!
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WITH THE DIVINE SELF-LOVE JOURNEY,
YOU'LL BE ABLE TO:
become aware of your real road blocks & re-engineer your path
expose the real b.s. running in the background of your mind and deconstruct it completely
rediscover your strengths, your edge and the vision you've forgotten
shatter your silence and pump up the volume as you unapologetically own the voice of your truth and value the message in your mess, as well as the breakthrough in your breakdown
find complete healing from all your perceived past traumas
reconcile your inner self at the body, mind & spirit level.
finally find the space and strength to forgive your self and free yourself of guilt for good.
understand your unique individuality and establish your role in the success of all relationships in your life
re-establish your wholeness and thrive in your potent divine matrix
celebrate your body with gratitude like never before
build strategic systems in your mind to give you more resilience and strength for growth and success in any situation you'll find yourself in
PLUS,
you'll get an arsenal of potent tools for
your journey including:
my signature mind code system that'll embed the truth of your design in your unconscious
Scripture declarations and meditations art pages to help heal your deepest wounds and open your energy realm through art to potent expansion of your spirit
my powerful signature "stage process" to completely make all the energetic closures and clearing you need to accomplish in your life
my mini "honor code" training to equip you on how to restore, build and strengthen all your personal and professional relationships
an anchoring process to create a "power button" in your body that embeds all powerful and strategic energies to help you in ANY given situation that you need an oomph for
a printable divine self-love journey workbook to help you establish the body-mind connection throughout your experiences
a printable daily pages to help you establish the strategically powerful practice of mindfulness
strategic guided meditations to help you practice relaxation and mindfulness
you'll also get the following
high frequency-infused sessions:
AND MORE!
(12) 90-min weekly LIVE Group Class via Zoom with Spotlight Coaching and Q&A with me!
EXCLUSIVE Viber Channel for accountability and community support.
(1) Monthly "Panic Mode" Meeting for any rapid release and emergency coaching needs.
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Time to own up our Truth,
shall we?
Here's my uncompromising word for you, beloved.
I commit to serving you with my whole and highest self during this 12-week journey together, because I know I will be held accountable for the divine work that will be accomplished here.
With that said, I want to make sure that we're both clear as to who this journey is really for.
You see, not everyone is ready to commit to a truly strategic and self-love journey. Most believe they really NEED one, but the perception they have for such a journey equates only to a visit to the nearest massage spa for relaxation. LOL!
That's obviously not the kind of journey we'll take together!
This Divine Self-Love Journey is a 12-week INTENSIVE with some deep, deep, juicy, potent work at all levels of your being, beloved! And as LOVE is primarily an action, this journey of
self-love REQUIRES YOU TO COMMIT AND BE WILLING TO TAKE ACTION every step of the way and provide yourself with the potent energy of pure, unhindered, completely deserved self-love!
So, to make it easier for you to determine whether you're REALLY ready for this journey, check the micro test below. Count how many times you answered yes to each item and total your score.
Which of the following resonates or connects with you at this time?
I am completely done with the daily pity-party and guilt.
I hate wallowing in my ZERO self-confidence space.
I am willing to forgive myself now.
I am SO EFFIN' READY to rise into my God-given brilliance!
I know I need equipping and training to grow myself for the better.
I am done with ALL my lame excuses and will commit to do EVERYTHING to love myself well.
If you've chosen at least 4 of the above statements as something that resonates with your energy right now, let me be the first to say,
CONGRATULATIONS!
You are ready.
You are destined for this path of realignment, beloved!
You're actually
SO WORTH IT
Perhaps, the biggest roadblock to REALLY getting on the Divine Self-Love journey is the deep GUILT that many feel for taking the initiative to DO SOMETHING GOOD FOR THEMSELVES .
This is expected, though, because guilt has become an ingrained energy in most people. This is the result of years and years of our being subjected to the idea that we are not enough and so we are not worthy of anything good and perfect.
Don't beat yourself too much about this, beloved. Guilt is like any other energy that does not serve our brilliance well. You can always move it out of the way.
And if you need to do that now, you can simply follow the quick process below to help you do just that.
Read through all the instructions first. You may do this with your eyes closed.
*Your unconscious knows how to accomplish this work, so just trust the process.*
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SCAN YOUR BODY FOR THE ENERGY OF GUILT.
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FIND THE LOCATION IN YOUR BODY WHERE IT IS STUCK.
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ONCE LOCATED, TAKE A DEEP BREATH & IMAGINE YOUR BREATH ENVELOPE THE ENERGY OF GUILT AS YOU INHALE.
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UPON EXHALE, VISUALIZE THE ENVELOPED ENERGY LEAVE OUT OF YOUR BODY AND SAY
"I release you now with love and grace."
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TAKE MORE CALM, DEEP BREATHS & IMAGINE A BRIGHT LIGHT WITH EACH BREATH FILL THE SPACE WHERE GUILT USED TO BE STUCK.
IT'S TIME TO RISE UP NOW!
TIME TO Love Yourself.
IT'S TIME YOU RECLAIM YOUR LIFE, YOUR VISION & BRILLIANCE!
Your world needs your brilliance back!
Quit serving your family, your friends, your community half-heartedly, beloved. You deserve so much more than the mediocre experiences you scavenge.
You are SO MUCH MORE than what you've perceived your life to be!
You deserve SO MUCH MORE of the abundance, the grace, the passion, the vigor, the joy,
the success, the fulfillment that you have been destined to enjoy!
The people in your life deserve a full legacy of brilliance!
IT'S TIME TO QUIT BACKING DOWN ON YOURSELF!
YOU WERE MEANT TO RISE.
You were meant to rise.
BECOMING EXTRAORDINARY TAKES AN
EXTRAORDINARY JOURNEY.
Here's an overview of what we'll go through together:
1. |
"MIRROR, MIRROR ON THE WALL"
A comprehensive self-review of who you perceive you are today and who you envision yourself to become.
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"THE CIRCLE OF LIFE"
A full circle view of the areas of your life and their current state. You will also create a re-engineered plan for where you want to be in the future.
3. |
"UNPACKING BAGGAGES"
Experience a deep, yet safe and loving process of unpacking the baggages of your life with a laser focus on releasing that which no longer serves you well.
4. |
"TAKING THE TRASH OUT"
Come face to face with every B.S. you have running in the background of your mind and deconstruct them strategically.
5. |
"WHOLISTIC DETOX"
This sacred comprehensive trauma inventory encompasses every aspect of your design. You will learn the strategic, graceful and loving ways to remove anything that causes trauma to your body, your mind and your spirit.
6. |
"DISCOVERY WEEK"
This comprehensive energetic inventory is a process that will help you discover every single energy that may become the underlying cause of your overwhelm and release them.
7. |
"REVELATION WEEK: Self-Forgiveness Process"
This process is the sacred journey that takes you into the different phases of your life when you most need to forgive yourself. The Self-Forgiveness process allows you to dissolve every single guilt, frustration, bitterness and anger towards yourself as you are held in the divine space of growth and honoring, of loving and forgiving.
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"REVELATION WEEK: Stage Process"
ANOTHER sacred journey that gives you the space to reconcile at a much higher realm any open loops you have with anybody. This sacred process will ease so many of your inner turmoils and will help you to finally have closure in life.
9. |
"THE MIND CODE SYSTEM"
The mind is a fascinating part of our design. It is our software for being and holds programming that defines our values at the moment. The Mind Code system is a magnificent sacred practice that will embed nothing less than the Truth of your design. Your mind cannot go against it because Scripture tells us that nothing can ever oppose the Truth... including the Truth of your Divine Design.
10. |
"DIVINE REALIGNMENT: BODY"
During this self-expansion week, you will become equipped with Disciplines of the Body, which are strategic ways to nourish your body to allow you to own up the divine health and well-being that you were designed to have.
11. |
"DIVINE REALIGNMENT: MIND"
This week will introduce you to the Disciplines of the Mind, which will equip you with strategic ways to nourish your mind to allow your growth into becoming so much more than who you have known yourself to be.
12. |
"DIVINE REALIGNMENT: SPIRIT"
During this final self-expansion week, you will become equipped with the Disciplines of the Spirit and build strategic ways to nourish your spirit to allow you to finally own up the POWER of your divine matrix and to stand upon the Truth of your brilliance as you become who you were destined to be.
Brilliance
IT'S TIME TO RECLAIM YOUR
Been There... Done That...
Hi dear one! My name is Cookie and I've been in that slump too, you know. I know how it feels when NOTHING, and I mean nothing, is working inside of you. I've served my own time in the infinite insanity cycle, beloved. I know the frustration of realizing there's so much more that I've been created for and yet I just can't break out of the f#cked-up overwhelm that I was in.
That overwhelm harms. It literally breaks you down. I know because I've been there and I've done that. I've watched myself burn cinnamon rolls in the microwave because I've mindlessly set the timer for 10 minutes instead of 10 seconds.
I've stared blankly over my stove while fire engulfed the frying pan I used to fry some fish for lunch with.
I've had my share of complete adrenal exhaustion where I'd only get enough energy to get the kids ready for school, drop them off and then crawl my way back to bed to sleep the hours away in between me picking them up again from school.
I've watched the puzzling pain and the hurt painted across my very young children's faces as they watch their mom become the monster she's never dared to want to be in her nightmares! I was lashing out at them in my pain and frustration.
Raising my unloving, un-honoring voice and just spewing all of my own pain and anguish at them. It was just an ugly, ugly overwhelm spilling over my precious, brilliant, beautiful kids!
I was a people-pleaser... a silenced voice because I have convinced myself that I should just keep mum about my Truth. I allowed other people to dishonor the vision and passion that God has intricately woven into my divine matrix!
I was willing to just accept the pain of physical, mental, emotional and spiritual abuse simply because I was told over and over again that I'm a woman and my place was to submit, to pray, to submit some more and to pray some more about my circumstances. I was told over and over again that this was my fate and I had to deal with it as it was handed to me in that God-forsaken plate!
I was hiding in my corner all broken from the heartache of watching my days wasted away in despondency. I was wanting so much to serve, to give, to help, to place myself out there and contribute to other people's lives. But I was in an ugly place. I was in a very, very ugly, dark and lonely place.
There were times when I've cried so hard until I couldn't cry anymore.
I've begged God so much that I ran out of words to use to convince Him I need something to change. And I remained in my infinite insanity cycle for years in my life, hoping, trying, convincing myself that things will soon change once the world realizes the horrible things they've done to me.
I was actually convinced by religious culture that being "BROKEN" was a calling. That being broken and suffering was a badge of honor I must be proud of if I were to call myself a "Christian."
Thankfully, God intervened and opened up my eyes timely enough to realize that my world's chaos and mess and f#ck ups were MY OWN choosing. It was a result of my own UN-equipping of self. My suffering was MY OWN choosing as I lived the consequences of NOT living in the divine, powerful, juicy, brilliant DESIGN that God has for me!
I was COMPLETELY OBLIVIOUS to my own Divine Design!
I was completely clueless to the POWER and the BRILLIANCE of my divine matrix. And it wasn't until God brought me to the space of relearning WHO I REALLY AM that I found the courage and determination to RISE.
I will rise... above all the turmoil in my head. I will rise... above all the mediocrity I have lived in my whole life...
I will rise... above all the lack of equipping in my life. I WILL RISE... to become who God REALLY created me to be!
And then, my own personal Divine Self-Love journey was the gift I needed to receive.
When God brought me through the unraveling of the life I was so comfortably suffering in, I went through my own journey of becoming AWARE of who I really am. God equipped me in the space where I completely reconciled WITH MYSELF.
And it was only when I was reconciled and made whole again that I released every hurt and pain I've held on for too long enough to give the space for my expansion.
My equipping allowed me to understand the JOY of giving from my overflow. This was what I have been designed to do.
ALL that happened in my divine matrix, happened FOR me and not to me. They were all sovereignly designed to work for GOOD... for my highest purpose... for my brilliance... for my legacy.
Today, I show you the path back to yourself as well, beloved.
Today I come alongside you and help YOU reclaim your life, your visions, your brilliance, your legacy.
It is time for YOU to rise. It is time for you to BE who you truly have been created to be.
It is time for you to know Love for yourself and be Love.
It's time to rise to the power within you!
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